Defloration operation | Surgical deflowering - removal of the hymen

So that it doesn’t hurt excruciatingly or everything about the defloration operation - painless and bloodless removal of virginity

This is the artificial removal of virginity for medical reasons (about 30% of cases) or, more often (about 70%) - at the girl’s own request. In our clinic, surgical defloration is performed on patients with a slightly or completely imperforated, mesh hymen, or when it is unusually thick, unusually hard, interfering or completely preventing the penetration of the penis or other object deep into the vagina. The clinical situations listed below may consider deflowering surgery as one of the available ways to solve the problem of loss of virginity, while others may consider it as the only possible one.

Indications for surgical defloration

There is a wide list of medical indications for such a procedure. An overly elastic and extensible hymen, which stretches well but does not tear as a result of sexual intercourse, is one of them. In addition, the gynecologist may recommend intervention in other cases:

• incomplete rupture as a result of the first intimate contacts: the consequences of this phenomenon are manifested in severe pain, bleeding with each subsequent attempt to engage in sexual intercourse;
• late rupture: the density of the hymen increases with age, its elasticity becomes lower, which is also fraught with tissue injury;
• atresia: this is an overgrowth of the hymen, which leads to serious consequences in the form of stagnation of menstrual bleeding and inflammatory processes in the pelvic organs;
• low pain threshold: even with a normal anatomical structure, sufficient elasticity and low density of the hymen, attempts to initiate sexual activity may fail due to pain.

Possible complications

For several days after plastic surgery in the perineal area, pain and a feeling of general internal discomfort are possible. The pain is usually of moderate intensity, so there is no need to limit the patient’s mobility or take painkillers.

On the first day after surgical defloration, bloody discharge may appear from the wounds at the site of the surgical incision, but the discharge is usually light, not intense, and passes quickly.

The risk of severe side effects or complications after surgical defloration is extremely low. Undesirable consequences of plastic surgery may include:

• Infection, development of inflammatory processes, if the doctor violated the rules of asepsis when performing plastic surgery. To prevent the development of infections and inflammations, a plastic surgeon may prescribe a course of antibiotics or similar drugs.
• Increased temperature and fever.

If these or other complications occur after surgery, the patient should immediately contact a plastic surgeon to diagnose and eliminate the cause of the side effects that have occurred.

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Preparing for defloration

Despite the fact that surgical defloration is a fairly simple intervention, it is important to properly prepare for it. The gynecologist conducting the initial examination will also prescribe a list of diagnostic procedures, which may include:

• clinical blood and urine tests;
• blood chemistry;
• determination of coagulability;
• tests for blood group, Rh factor, if these data are unknown;
• laboratory diagnostics for infections (syphilis, HIV, viral hepatitis);
• vaginal smear for flora;
• ECG.

This allows you to ensure that there are no contraindications. If they are not, the doctor will plan the operation taking into account the menstrual cycle. It is performed on days without natural bleeding.

Will that do? Or should I just sew it up?

No matter how much women talk about their equality, they are still obliged to obey traditions, even if it is an atavism. Therefore, psychologists recommend not arguing with the opinion of your future husband and his relatives, exposing yourself to attack. The best way to avoid scandals is to give a man what he values ​​so much – virginity. Moreover, doing this now is not at all difficult, and not so expensive.

But you shouldn’t consider your man a complete ram and buy “artificial hymens” and blood pills. If the deception is revealed it will be even worse. If you decide to return your “purity,” at least do it conscientiously. Let your loved one enjoy it to the fullest. And you will have a great opportunity to start all over again.

As for men, psychologists recommend that they pay attention to a woman’s behavior and not delve into her past, finding out where, how and what happened. After all, you can take a woman’s virginity in a second, but then you will have to live with her for many years.

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How is the procedure performed?

The patient is located in a gynecological chair. The doctor treats the genitals with anesthetic solutions and performs local anesthesia - in the vast majority of cases it is sufficient for comfortable manipulation. Sometimes anesthesia may be used if the hymen is too dense. In this case, the work is carried out in tandem with an anesthesiologist, and short-term intravenous anesthesia is used.

After anesthesia, the specialist cuts the hymen with a scalpel, widens the entrance to the vagina with his fingers and inserts a tampon soaked in an antiseptic into the vagina. The entire procedure takes no more than 15 minutes; it is one of the simplest and most predictable gynecological operations.

Other methods of dissection are the use of radiosurgery or laser methods. These methods of performing gynecological interventions have many advantages:

• antiseptic effect - low risk of infection;
• coagulating effect - prevention of bleeding due to the immediate “sealing” of blood vessels;
• shorter period of tissue restoration and healing;
• painlessness.

Postoperative care

In the first week after surgery, the patient needs to wash herself after each trip to the toilet to minimize the risk of developing inflammatory processes.

Sexual contacts are permissible starting from 8-10 days after surgical defloration. Resuming sexual activity earlier may delay the healing process and cause long-term swelling of the genitals. For some time after plastic surgery, usually 2-3 days, it is recommended to refrain from intense physical activity and sports, and it is necessary to regularly douche the vagina with antiseptic solutions.

Will the scars be visible?

The purpose of intimate plastic surgery is to correct physiological and cosmetic defects of the genital organs. A qualified gynecologist surgeon will perform the procedure so that its traces will be completely invisible. To avoid scars, preference should be given to the surgical method of correction. The laser technique, popular today, causes tissue hardening, coagulation of blood vessels and the formation of thickened dark zones.

At the Center for Aesthetic Intimate Surgery in St. Petersburg, all operations are performed by experienced surgeons after a thorough study of the patient’s problem. This allows you to choose the right technique and avoid postoperative complications. Throughout the entire rehabilitation period, the clinic’s doctors support the patient and monitor her condition.

All surgical interventions are performed on an outpatient basis, which involves staying in the recovery room for two to four hours under the supervision of the operating physician and anesthesiologist. After the operation, it is necessary to follow a number of recommendations that depend on the type of surgical intervention.

Price

Deflowering by surgery is not a technically complex plastic surgery; the hymen always heals after surgery in such a way that even an experienced gynecologist cannot always recognize defloration that occurred surgically, so the cost of the operation in ordinary clinics is low. The cost of the operation depends on the chosen technique, type of anesthesia, pricing policy and location of the clinic or medical center.

The average cost of surgical defloration is from 3,000 to 20,000 rubles. The cost of the operation usually includes a preliminary consultation with a plastic surgeon and anesthesiologist, a set of tests and examinations before the operation, general or local anesthesia, the operation and hospital stay if necessary.

You may want to read about labiaplasty - correction of the size and shape of the labia.

Is it possible to get pregnant for the first time?

You can often hear the statement that pregnancy cannot happen after the first sex. Mostly, such rumors are spread by people who have absolutely no understanding of the mechanism of conception. Also, a girl can hear similar speeches from her friend, who wants to take advantage of the opportunity and lull her vigilance.

When asked whether a girl can become pregnant after the first sexual intercourse, all gynecologists answer in the affirmative. If a girl has already had menstruation at least once, then her body is ready for conception. It is risky for a young girl to decide to have unprotected sexual intercourse, since conception can occur even before the menstrual cycle is established.

Ovulation occurs in young representatives of the fairer sex a few days before the first menstruation. During this period, the ovaries begin their active work, changing hormonal levels. Outwardly, this is manifested by the growing up of the girl: enlargement of the mammary glands, the appearance of feminine curves of the body, hair growth in the pubic area and armpits. Approximately 1.5-2 years from the beginning of these processes, the first menstruation occurs - menarche. They report that the girl is becoming sexually mature and now an egg capable of fertilization will be released from her ovaries every cycle.

Whether a virgin can get pregnant will have to be debated. Much will depend on how close the relationship with the boy was. As you know, for conception it is necessary that only one sperm enters the vagina. In this case, direct contact of the genitals is not necessary. Stroking the genitals and rubbing them can already lead to pregnancy. This type of contact is called petting and is widely popular among teenagers. Girls, fearing getting pregnant during the first sexual intercourse, agree to mutual affection. However, even in this way they “fly” the first time.

So, the first time you can get pregnant with the same success as the thirty-first. Therefore, you should not listen to guys’ beliefs, but it is better to consult a gynecologist or mother on this topic.

Expert opinion

• Cosmetologist
• Surgeon

Anna Avaliani

practicing cosmetologist

Today, not many people know about the operation of artificial deflowering. Women continue to experience pain during sexual intercourse and fear of complicated hymen rupture. A thick, finely perforated, inelastic hymen impedes the natural process. With rough sexual contact, a woman may develop mental disorders, conditions such as anorgasmia, vaginismus, even a preference for same-sex relationships. Today, surgical defloration in Moscow is performed in almost any medical center.

Sheila Nazaryan

plastic surgeon

If the consistency and structure of vaginal discharge changes, urination disorder, pain during intercourse and other symptoms after defloration require consultation with a doctor.
Surgical deflowering is a routine, uncomplicated operation. Healing does not leave rough scars.

After the operation, the woman does not require hormonal therapy. Reproductive function is preserved. During pregnancy and childbirth, the risk of long-term complications is excluded.

For many women, medical defloration gives them a feeling of confidence in sex. In case of late onset of sexual activity or fundamental sexual abstinence, medical defloration does not disrupt the flow of menstrual blood and does not lead to complications of the reproductive system in women.

Not the night of love8

In Ancient Rus' they took the loss of innocence very seriously. On the wedding night, the groom’s “friend” was present near the newlyweds’ bed. The man not only “held a candle” and watched what was happening. He could insure his newly-made husband and take possession of a virgin if he could not cope with marital responsibilities.

Residents of Tibet are also extreme people. They considered virginity during marriage to be a kind of shame. At the same time, the girl, before marriage, had to sleep with twenty representatives of the stronger sex. Such baggage of lovers announced that the young lady was now ready for a family relationship and would be faithful to her husband.

Ancient India, the birthplace of the Kama Sutra, took defloration seriously and responsibly. This procedure was performed by experienced craftsmen for a certain amount. They skillfully prepared the girl for the act: they relaxed her, excited her. The hymen was torn with a wooden phallus. After the process, the genitals were lubricated with medicinal ointment.

In the 16th century in France, a feudal lord was invited to deflower a bride. The girl’s husband considered it an honor if his mademoiselle ended up in the same bed with the “senior” for the first time. He could thank the gentleman with a certain amount of money.

But real horror awaited virgins in equatorial Africa. Young girls were sent to the Jungle to have intercourse with a gorilla. If the animal did not take possession of the poor thing, the virgin was doomed to shame and loneliness. She was haunted by laughter all her life, so much so that even the gorilla couldn’t covet the young lady!

Choice of pain relief

The type of pain relief is selected individually. Most often they resort to local anesthesia with lidocaine injections into the area of ​​intended manipulation.

However, in some cases or with pathologies of the structure of the genital organs, local anesthesia alone is not enough.

Anesthesia and a larger volume of surgical intervention are resorted to in the following cases:

• vaginal septum;
• complete or deep fusion of the lumen;
• simultaneous labiaplasty;
• the need for therapeutic and diagnostic procedures.

Anesthesia is also performed in case of pathological fear of medical interventions, psychological instability of a woman, according to indications.

In this case, the presence of an intensive care and resuscitation room is required, and the participation of an anesthesiologist-resuscitator throughout the entire process.